I came across the quotation ” having one child makes you a parent but having two children makes you a referee.”
I’ll add to that. Having three or four children makes you conductor of a trio or a quartet. Having five children makes you a basketball coach. Six children makes you a volleyball coach, seven you will have a libero in a volleyball team. Having eight does you one less than to be in a softball team. Nine makes your team complete. And ten makes you a coach of a full line-up basketball team with second stringers.
This is what children make of you. To be an all around parent to be able to provide what they need and hone their potential on what they can achieve.